Tuesday, August 17, 2010

狗與人

Terry家養了一隻狗名叫Molly
Molly很醜,是亞洲人家不會養的那種
Ros說這種狗原來是引進在牧場趕馬羊用,後來發現牠們性情溫和對孩子很友善,於是越來越多家庭養來陪孩子玩耍
Ros知道Molly喜歡梳毛,偶爾晚餐出門前有空會幫Molly來個沒理由的獎賞
我在的期間也會為了討好Molly,吃早餐時餵她吃水果,天氣熱喝冰水時餵她吃冰塊,只要Molly靠近腳邊就伸手騷騷她脖子,我知道她愛的很,Molly沒事也會靠過來討愛
幾年前家裡養了一隻馬爾西斯王仔米
有次我在房間落淚難過,仔米默默靠過來舔掉我臉上的淚水

狗不說人語,人透過觀察了解狗的喜好與之親近互動
人不說狗語,憑藉著朝夕相處產生密不可分的情感
人與人用地球上最完整的語言系統溝通加上語調及肢體協助,仍能產生所謂的溝通不良
是我們對彼此觀察的不夠還是用心不足
無怪乎人自稱是宇宙中最難解最複雜的動物

寫完這些直到洗澡入睡前我的腦袋仍在思考這個問題
或許是錯誤的期待導致
試想如果主人開門,狗沒來迎接,狗主腦袋閃過的不是先對狗生氣,而是擔心狗是不是怎麼了,而兩人相約定的事,如果一方沒做到,首先反應肯定是先生氣而不是先關心對方的實際狀況

也許是信賴感太容易瓦解
人跟狗玩,不論叫牠幾次一喊牠就會跑來
人呢?!
不管是掃地或是耙樹葉,都要參一腳的Molly

真的很醜吧!!


to Terry
I am trying to write this in English for you.
This short essay is talking about "communication"
We all love Molly(dog).So we carefully observed the behavior of dogs(Molly)
Then we understand how to do with them.
I saw Ros combed for Molly and Molly enjoyed it.
I fed Molly with fruits and ice cube, because I felt she like.
People can not speak "dog language",Dogs just bark woof woof, we also can communicate.

But people we use the most perfect communication system "language" with tonation and body language.In fact, we misunderstand each others all the time.
why!!
Maybe people we are in different expectation.
Maybe we expect wrong to others.
or
It's difficult to make the relationship based on trust.